The TikToker and Twitch streamer Dilara sparked a heated discussion on social media when she received an unexpected cancellation from her influencer friend Theresa for an invitation to Wiesn while live in front of her viewers. The community is divided on whether Theresa’s honesty is a sign of true friendship or if she disrespected Dilara.
Who is Dilara? Since 2019 Dilara has been captivating the social media world, especially on TikTok, with her videos. With an impressive 6.9 million followers, she has become a sought-after influencer.
On TikTok, she produces dance videos, answers fan questions, and keeps up with the latest trends.
In August 2023, she expanded her presence on Twitch and started with a bang, reaching over 5,000 viewers in her first stream. Thus, she immediately rose as one of the biggest German Twitch streamers.
In her streams, she often plays various games with her streamer colleague “Stegi” and shares her highlights on TikTok. Dilara’s unmistakable green streaks in her hair and her constant smile have become her trademarks.
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Why did Theresa cancel on her? The incident occurred during one of her Twitch live streams when Dilara spontaneously called her influencer friend Theresa Kirchner. Dilara had invited her to go to the Munich Oktoberfest, the “Wiesn” together.
But instead of an expected agreement, Dilara received an unexpected cancellation. Theresa explained: “I can think of a few people I would rather go to the Wiesn with than you.” She expressed concern that the event could turn into a gathering of Dilara’s fans and that they both would not be able to enjoy the Wiesn in peace.
In addition, Theresa revealed that she is generally not a fan of the Oktoberfest. Dilara was visibly shocked and disappointed by the unexpected response. She commented on the situation with the words: “My own friends are mocking me.”
“That’s silly,” says TikTok colleague
What does the community say about it? The incident between Dilara and Theresa has sparked a lively discussion on social media. The question arises as to what should take priority in a friendship: honesty or the well-being of the other.
One side sharply criticizes Theresa. They accuse her of not being a true friend and having treated Dilara disrespectfully.
The other side, however, defends Theresa, arguing that she merely expressed her concerns honestly. Theresa would rather meet Dilara privately, without the attention of her followers. She does not want to take the opportunity to boost her reach.
What do other influencers say about it? Not only fans but also other influencers have commented on this incident. The well-known TikToker missgeorgiacavallo expressed her support for Theresa, stating that she can empathize with her concerns.
She emphasized that the assumption that Theresa is not a true friend is wrong. She herself has experienced that it is uncomfortable for her friends when they are overwhelmed by fans during their shared activities. Therefore, she prefers private meetings with friends.
She concluded her TikTok statement with the words: “And now attacking Theresa for saying, I would rather spend time with my friend this way, that’s silly, man. Shut it!”.
Dilara commented on this post with the words: “100% Theresa and I are such good friends and we know exactly how to handle each other.” Missgeorgiacavallo replied: “Sure, I also don’t understand why people immediately think it’s not okay because you guys aren’t like others.”
Just recently, one of Dilara’s friendships became a topic of conversation. The friendly influencer Anna revealed in an interview that she often feels like a ‘sidekick’. She also highlighted the downsides that come with the friendship to Dilara. Nevertheless, she emphasized that she genuinely wishes her well-deserved success.
